The first 50 words to say are...
I am here to help
Listen, Refer & Connect, Take Care of Yourself. Of these actions, the most important is to recognize your own limitations and get your student connected to help. If your student wants to confidentially find out about their options, contact the Confidential Support Team.
Confidential support and help accessing resources, short-term emotional support, and ongoing individual counseling; free to Stanford students
Business line: (650) 736-6933
24 Hour Hotline: (650) 725-9955
If you are a faculty or a staff member who works regularly with students, you are a “responsible employee” under Title IX who must share what you know with Jill Thomas, Title IX Coordinator, Kingscote Gardens, 419 Lagunita Drive, Suite 240, Stanford, (650) 497-4955, firstname.lastname@example.org. (Knowing that you must share can be nerve-wracking. We suggest that you are direct with the student and let them know that you must act under a legal obligation. Let the student know that the Title IX Office will work with the student to try and meet their needs, including trying to give them agency about whether to proceed to an investigation.)